Monday, June 14, 2010

Summer Weddings

Wedding season is upon us and the big question for the guests...what to wear? You have to take into account the time of day, the location and the couple getting married.

Time of Day

The time of day will dictate a range of appropriate attire. Weddings held before lunchtime are more casual and get progressively more formal throughout the day. There is no rule, as far as I am concerned, regarding the length of a dress, unless the invitation says black or white tie, then a gown should be worn. Maxi dresses, tea length dresses, and above the knee dresses (no micro minis!) can be worn at anytime, as long as the style is appropriate. You can wear more color and patterns during the day than at night. You can also wear strappy sandals and chunky heels.


ABS Rose Floral Maxi Dress


ABS Rose Multi Print One Shoulder Dress, $149 from Rue Lala


ABS Aubergine Cowl Neck Gown


ABS Aubergine Cowl Neck Gown, $129 from Rue Lala


ABS Black & Ivory Cocktail Dress


ABS Black & Ivory Cocktail Dress, $129 from Rue Lala


Location

The location of the wedding also plays a part in deciding what to wear. You can wear strapless or thin strapped dresses to an outdoor wedding; you can even wear a silk jumper. Wearing a shrug or jacket may be an appropriate addition to your outfit for a church wedding, depending on the church. Wedges and more colorful footwear can be worn at beach weddings, but you may want to go slightly more conservative for garden weddings, and stick with traditional pumps for church ceremonies. A similar rule of thumb should be followed regarding jewelry and accessories: bright, colorful and chunky jewelry is appropriate for beachside weddings and more delicate pieces should be worn to more formal unions.


ABS Rhinestone Drop Necklace


ABS Rhinestone Drop Necklace, $39 from Rue Lala


ABS Silk Jumper


ABS Silk Jumper, $99 from Rue Lala


The Couple

You know your friends and you know what they like. The bride may love purple and would be ecstatic to see you and your date wearing purple. Perhaps the bride likes 50's inspired dresses and would be thrilled to see you in a dress with a full skirt. Maybe the wedding is at the beach and the bride and groom are fun loving people- a Hawaiian print could be perfect! Is the bride a shoe-aholic? Funky shoes would fit right in. If the couple mentions a dress code on the invitation, follow it (no jacket or tie required, tea length dress recommended, more bedazzled the better!).


Charles David "Sassy" Suede Heels


Charles David "Sassy" Suede Heels, $99 from Rue Lala


basix Black & White Dress with Flower


basix Black & White Dress with Flower, $99 from ideeli




jack rogers Raspberry Maggy's Party Dress, $78 from ideeli


There are just a few things to remember: you are going to a wedding, not a club or bar; it is the bride and groom's special day, so don't wear anything that will compete with them (like a long white dress!); have fun and be yourself!

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